Strangers On A Bus

Last week I had two occurrences which made me contemplate the information revolution and how it might effect our lives in some unique ways. Sometimes the technology comes at us so fast we forget that it hasn’t been with us for very long. I can hardly imagine myself without a cell phone – but less than a decade ago I had never held one – let alone an iPhone on which I check my email while taking the Max into work. So it’s equally challenging sometimes to imagine how radically different our lives will be a mere decade from now.
On Tuesday I was sitting in the corner of the Green Dragon pub having a pint with a friend when I decided to get up to use the restroom. While heading to the men’s room, I happened to bump into an old colleague of mine who I hadn’t seen in probably four years. We chatted for a few minutes, exchanged business cards and agreed to meet up for coffee soon. It was a great coincidence that our paths had crossed.
I’ve always been fascinated by the “bump-in”. Not so much by the folks I bump into on occasion, but moreso by all the countless folks who must have been close – but I never noticed. On any given day – how many friends are only a block away? How often am I at an event in which someone I’d enjoy seeing is there – but I just never happen to realize it.
It seems to reason that in the near future – those sort of situations will be greatly assisted by software. There are already sites like FourSquare where people check-in at various locations. Of course, there are also sites like Please Rob Me that take that data and use it against you (albeit in a funny manner).
While I don’t think I would be comfortable posting my whereabouts to everyone – I can certainly see myself allowing a select group of folks to know my location at certain times. It could be useful in an office so co-workers know where you’re at in the building. Useful at concerts to find friends (expected or unexpected). Suddenly you have a whole new insight at networking events – you can see the entire crowd indexed by your contact list.
As smartphones with GPS become more the standard – all types of information about WHERE you do, what you do will become available – and entirely new types of software will be developed to make use of all that data. Just as police might now investigate phone records when a crime has been committed – in the near future I wouldn’t be surprised if GPS data of where a defendant was will become standard evidence in a trial. By looking at entire collections of data – irrespective of the individuals – we will be able to learn volumes about how folks migrate around a city or community. This information could greatly assist city planners, event organizers, or even transportation officials.
The second occurrence that struck me as funny occurred while riding the #70 bus in the morning. I looked over at the passenger sitting across from me and noticed he had a name-tag hanging from his waist. Anytime I see a name tag I’m immediately brought back to my mom’s teaching about kidnappers (whom to my young mind were all about – and ready to pounce at any moment). Anytime I had a name-tag on, she cautioned – be extra careful that you know an individual, if they say your name. A solid lesson in fear – but wise words none the less.
And indeed, at one time, I suppose an unscrupulous type could approach an unsuspecting person and could possibly con them into believing they were an acquaintance – but for how long? Today, however, a name can get me a lot further. As I have no desire to lay out a full stalking of an unsuspecting fellow Tri-Met rider, I will reverse the cards and look up “Greg Spies, Portland” in Google.
Well hello. Looks like I have some info. In fact I have:
- My company name, what my business does and most of my clients
- My bio and entire resume from LinkedIn
- Names of fellow past co-workers from LinkedIn
- The college I attended and degree from LinkedIn
- All my Twitter posts, discussing numerous aspects of my job and life.
- Some of my friends and the groups/pages I’m a fan of on Facebook
And that’s just in the first 4 links. With some effort I’m sure there is more (no, seriously, I’m sure there is more – I Google myself regularly… I admit it).
Now how long could someone keep a conversation going with me? It’s a bit scary. However it’s also pretty interesting. Information is neutral – it’s what we do with it that counts.
Social media is going to expand beyond just sitting at your computer reading Facebook posts. It will continue to infiltrate smart phones – and then eventually iPads and all the touch-screen devices that will follow. Now if I’m in a Group on Facebook – that Group can exist in the non-virtual world as well. If there is someone else in the coffeeshop who thinks that poodle with tinfoil on it’s head can get more fans than Glen Beck – the two of you could opt to chat about it over a latte.
I already choose as many do, to show that I’m online with Facebook. I occasionally mention I’m going to an event or a bar. It’s not a far leap for me to add a bit of GPS data from time to time to pinpoint my location when I’m out and about. I would certainly GPS my photos so folks could see where they were taken. I think as we begin to dip our toes into the hot waters of the information age, we will get used to sharing what at one time seemed personal. Much of what folks share on Facebook and Twitter were moments we would have considered private a mere decade ago. I have witnessed break-ups, engagements, babies, death and all the tiny details in between from hundreds of people who would be little more than strangers if we weren’t modern day friends of the information age.
Maybe privacy is the bi-product of a lonesome, isolated age – where a lack of communication forced us to suffer and celebrate in small, if not singular parties. In this new age, we can be connected not only virtually with those around us as we are today – but also in person. We can discover our old friend is only a few tables over – we can make a lunch decision by seeing where co-workers are at – and we can discover others nearby who share our interests. Striking up a conversation with a stranger perhaps gets a bit easier when you have some topics to start with.
Or, as always, we can press the off switch and take a few hours to ourselves. The key, as always, is moderation.


I learned in college that Albert Einstein had discovered in 1905 that the visuals – light – and the speed at which they approach us as the observer, is the only true constant. That time was relative. That one’s experience is relative – and that the duration of the time between two events can be different for two separate observers. Your experience is different from mine.
At home – I can finally see myself using an eReader.















